SECRETS TO DISTRESSING - white queen bedframe

Distressing a paint finish successfully is an art. It isn't simply loading up a palm sander and attacking.
A light edge distressing is extremely attractive look and shows all the detail of your piece.
The more detailed the more it stands out in a crowd!
First lets talk sand paper ...

I hand sand all my distressing,

I fold my paper over twice as shown in the photos.

To get into recessed areas I curve my paper as seen below.

Another trick is to highlight flaws.

When you come across something unusual in the finish like a knot or dent make it more noticeable.
See below how I've sanded a little extra around the dent.

Distressing is meant to simulate age. Imagine the wear and tear furniture goes through in 50 years. Kids sitting rubbing their feet over the same rung of a chair as they grow up, or
Mom wiping down the cabinet doors during each week of house cleaning. The paint starts to wear
in the same areas over time.

I hope this will help you with your distressing projects and gives you some great ideas.

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  1. I agree, there is an art to distressing. I constantly see pieces that the paint is just sanded off here or there, with no attention to detail or authenticity. I take a lot of time when I distress my pieces. I can definitely see you do as well! Beautiful work!

  2. Sanding is the trickiest part of the job so far as I can tell. I hate to see those pieces that have been almost sanded into a polka-dot finish. I'm not very proficient at sanding so I go for the less-is-more look.

  3. Another wonderful looking bed... I like these tips.
    "Highlighting the flaws"... a good thing to know when distressing. Pat

  4. thank you for sharing these tips. I'm so afraid to distress, but love the look. I just keep painting everything white and waiting for "the day" when I start distressing them.